The Verbal D

at what age do you become a cougar?

bowlingalleylawyer:

theverbald:

bowlingalleylawyer:

HA! well my greatest age difference was when I was 30 and was dating my glorious Kiwi baseballer who was 22. My ex is 6 years younger and I will be 40 in 4 weeks.

I seriously have to find out how old Gym Crush is….

i think that if you find out he’s 26, and sleep with him before your birthday, you’re in the clear ;)

seriously though, the whole “cougar” label is something that women should O.W.N. I see it as a badge of honor to be over 25 and still considered “sexy.” (not that i’m saying i’m sexy, but for those that are….)

oh I think if you just bang em, you’re in the clear!

I’d guess he is younger than 35, but not by much…. of course I am crap at guessing ages.

I’ve never minded dating younger men exclusively in the past. I have never been married and have no kids… I like the same in a man, but as I get older, that is harder to find in a mate. I guess it is the 40th bearing down on me that has me pondering this!

well, it seems to me that you work out regs, you are respected in your profession, and you post attractive pictures.  i’m pretty sure that if you can meet someone who is respected in his profession (and hopefully loves what he does), maintains his health (physical activity and otherwise), and is attractive to you, and attracted to you in person, you’re doing pretty much better than average.  so, outside of lables and numbers, have fun!  it’s your life afterall ;)